January 21, 2006

  • i'm not exactly sure that i did... or what i didn't do
    but apparently, i've been labeled as "구박쟁이" to someone i thought i've gained decent trust over
    and i've recently came to realization that i have group of people who don't really trust me...

    i feel like i've tried everything i can to acquire these people's trust over... past few months...
    but apparently, my homeone is incomplete.

    i'm not gona buy a gold nugget and take it to them to show that they
    can trust me, or they can take me as who i am..  but being labeled
    as someone who you never thought you would be... sorta sucks... 
    nono..  sucks a lot...

    nerd, dork, goof-ball, funny,    i've heard these before... 
    very few of the people know me as a person who knows RANDOM crap...
    "random"

    i never thought that i would be labeled as "a person who scolds a lot"
    i?  scold??

    i guess that bothers me...  and when i get bothered by silly things like that,
    there's only one phrase i can think of..

    "can you finally shut the fuck up charles?"

Comments (6)

  • darn.. i thought i was deeeeeeess close to a nugget.. kekeke..
    well it doesn't matter about those dongkohs.
    you have people who love yah. like keeemeeee.. in socal. sigh. it's 8am. i'm delirious.
    *dance dance*

  • people will always make judgements.

    i stay away from the ones that make the wrong ones. life is better that way. :)

  • Personally I don't really see it... perhaps with the exception of James -- I must say, you can be very harsh on him. Despite your good intentions, some people just don't respond to "tough love". But then again, every interpersonal relationship is different. I say try not to take the remark as an attack, but just think carefully about it and see to what extent you find it to be true. And if you do realize that you may have a tendency to be unjustifiably overbearing with this person (and/or other persons), work to change that. But if you find those allegations to be unfounded, then discard them.

    In any event, I don't think it's good to avoid people who may have HONEST criticisms for you (unless they're just being spiteful), because they might be right, and if you're open to them rather than being defensive, it could make you a better person...

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  • I agree with Eugene and to add some.  You learn from almost everything that flies at you.  Try to think in terms of what I could learn from this hard luck rather than being a bit emotional about it.  It ain't so easy once you took it through your sensitive route but always try your best to channel that not to pessimistically but towards constructive path,  always....

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